How to Overcome Lust & Attract Your Soulmate

Dudes, lust-dating and LTR-dating are two different games

Also ladies, if you want to attract your soulmate: /

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BIO (Ruwan Meepagala)
– Has coached men since 2011
– Former relationship counselor in NYC on Psychology Today
– Was once in a matriarchal cult (see my memoir: )
– History nerd (see History of Man Podcast: )
– Father
– Husband
– Chess addict (challenge me: )
– BJJ (blue belt) & MMA enthusiast

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Debbie Olson
Debbie Olson

My name is Debbie Olson and I'm the proud founder and creator of the soulmate section on After spending years studying relationships and what makes two people truly compatible, I realized that many people are searching for their one true soulmate. That inspired me to create a space where people could connect with their perfect match.

With over a decade of experience studying human relationships and psychology, I've honed my skills at identifying what factors determine an unbreakable bond. I pour my heart and soul into every match I make, getting to know each member on a deep level. It's incredibly rewarding to receive testimonials from happy couples who found their soulmate here.

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  1. This knowledge is priceless and can attest that these phases are accurate. For some lust is the only way, for others legacy and building beyond ourselves becomes the way.

  2. You have a beautiful family, and the life you created for them looks and sounds so amazing. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, wisdom, and experiences with us in a way that resonates with so many people. Many of us would still be lost if we did not find you, Ruwan.

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